eslint: Add @tanstack/eslint-plugin-query plugin (#43359)

* eslint: Add `@tanstack/eslint-plugin-query` plugin
  May as well, we use Tanstack Query in several places.
* crm: Update `@tanstack/react-query` to v5 (#43360)

Committed via a GitHub action: https://github.com/Automattic/jetpack/actions/runs/15142675279

Upstream-Ref: Automattic/jetpack@a17f2d2

Author: anomiex

composer.json

@@ -12,7 +12,7 @@
 		"automattic/jetpack-composer-plugin": "^4.0.5",
 		"automattic/jetpack-config": "^3.1.0",
 		"automattic/jetpack-connection": "^6.11.5",
-		"automattic/jetpack-my-jetpack": "^5.14.3",
+		"automattic/jetpack-my-jetpack": "^5.14.4-alpha",
 		"automattic/jetpack-sync": "^4.13.0",
 		"automattic/jetpack-status": "^5.1.4"
 	},