BED-5504: Move common query utils to shared-ui

[benwaples]

Description

Moves some of the common shared react-query utils to the shared-ui to be shared with other query hooks

Motivation and Context

This PR addresses: BED-5504

We keep recreating these functions so this PR moves them to the shared-ui so we only have one version.

How Has This Been Tested?

Moved existing unit tests

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Types of changes

• Chore (a change that does not modify the application functionality)
• New feature (non-breaking change which adds functionality)

Checklist:

• I have met the contributing prerequisites
  • Assigned myself to this PR
  • Added the appropriate labels
  • Associated an issue: Issues and Pull Requests README #672
  • Read the Contributing guide: https://github.com/SpecterOps/BloodHound/wiki/Contributing
• I have ensured that related documentation is up-to-date
  • Open API docs
  • Code comments (GoDocs / JSDocs)
• I have followed proper test practices
  • Added/updated tests to cover my changes
  • All new and existing tests passed

[maffkipp]

LGTM! Thanks for moving these over