ref(replays): refactor query code

[aliu39]

• make use of date_filter_optional=False for filter params
• rename query_replays_collection_raw to query_replays_collection_paginated, and remove query_replays_collection (this is no longer needed for compatibility with getsentry, since we moved the delete replays script to sentry)
• use .get() instead of .pop() in post_process.generate_normalized_output and group/alphabetize the fields
• misc small typing, naming, and docstring improvements

[codecov]

Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 95.89041% with 3 lines in your changes are missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 79.68%. Comparing base (3644f5c) to head (621aa57).
Report is 984 commits behind head on master.

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Files	Coverage Δ
...y/replays/endpoints/organization_replay_details.py	97.56% <ø> (+2.21%)	⬆️
...try/replays/endpoints/organization_replay_index.py	98.46% <100.00%> (ø)
src/sentry/replays/query.py	86.77% <100.00%> (+0.59%)	⬆️
src/sentry/replays/scripts/delete_replays.py	100.00% <100.00%> (+57.50%)	⬆️
src/sentry/replays/usecases/query/__init__.py	96.96% <100.00%> (ø)
src/sentry/replays/validators.py	100.00% <ø> (ø)
src/sentry/replays/post_process.py	97.79% <98.33%> (-0.05%)	⬇️
...ntry/replays/endpoints/project_replay_viewed_by.py	90.14% <60.00%> (-2.40%)	⬇️

... and 497 files with indirect coverage changes

[getsantry]

This pull request has gone three weeks without activity. In another week, I will close it.

But! If you comment or otherwise update it, I will reset the clock, and if you add the label WIP, I will leave it alone unless WIP is removed ... forever!

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[aliu39]

Closing as this is outdated and a lot of changes to review - might come back to later