Replace load relations because of red and write db replica issues on create

Author: Marius

src/Services/BaseResourceService.php

@@ -162,7 +162,9 @@ abstract protected function setBaseModel(): void;
 
     protected function addRelationsToExistingModel(array $withRelations, BaseModel $model): void
     {
-        $model->load($withRelations);
+        foreach ($withRelations as $relationName) {
+            $model->{$relationName};
+        }
     }
 
     /**