Nx Nestjs Pnpm best practices

[Forceres]

What are best practices to manage monorepo setup with Nx, Nestjs and pnpm with buildable libs?
We have nx/dependency-check eslint rule, but it doesn't have quick fix for local deps (@org/lib: "workspace:*"), it sets 0.0.1 always, so we need manually change it.
Also looks like we can't use webpack with Nest and pnpm, it ignores local node_modules at all.
Watch mode is buggy with tsc or swc and runTargetDependencies (sometimes hangs forever, doesn't respect app graceful shutdown, so our server hangs forever)