Fail query runner when nodes do not come up

[tdcmeehan]

Description

When query runners fail to launch a cluster, a log is printed that shows this, but it doesn't fail the query runner. This could result in timeouts. It is better to fail early when the cluster does not launch.

Motivation and Context

More obvious errors.

Impact

See above

Test Plan

Query runners are used throughout our testing suite, so this should be thoroughly tested with existing tests.

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[aditi-pandit]

Thanks @tdcmeehan for this code.

[hantangwangd]

Thanks for the fix. Mostly looks good to me, just one nit.

[BryanCutler]

LGTM

[hantangwangd]

LGTM.