Handle PDisk stop event if PDisk is in error or init state

[SammyVimes]

(cherry picked from commit cfede7f)

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Test history | Test log

TESTS	PASSED	ERRORS	FAILED	SKIPPED	MUTED?
40278	34994	0	23	5222	39

🟢 2025-05-02 12:54:27 UTC ydbd size 8.3 GiB changed* by +10.5 KiB, which is < 100.0 KiB vs stream-nb-24-4: OK

ydbd size dash	stream-nb-24-4: cfbcdcd	merge: 7c6ce33	diff	diff %
ydbd size	8 908 970 560 Bytes	8 908 981 336 Bytes	+10.5 KiB	+0.000%
ydbd stripped size	485 576 616 Bytes	485 577 448 Bytes	+832 Bytes	+0.000%

^{*please be aware that the difference is based on comparing your commit and the last completed build from the post-commit, check comparation}

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⚪ 2025-05-02 10:18:55 UTC Pre-commit check for 7c6ce33 has started.
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Test history | Test log

TESTS	PASSED	ERRORS	FAILED	SKIPPED	MUTED?
11599	11487	0	39	29	44

🟢 2025-05-02 13:04:19 UTC ydbd size 5.6 GiB changed* by +1.3 KiB, which is < 100.0 KiB vs stream-nb-24-4: OK

ydbd size dash	stream-nb-24-4: 66783e9	merge: 7c6ce33	diff	diff %
ydbd size	6 038 877 088 Bytes	6 038 878 464 Bytes	+1.3 KiB	+0.000%
ydbd stripped size	1 510 571 328 Bytes	1 510 571 776 Bytes	+448 Bytes	+0.000%

^{*please be aware that the difference is based on comparing your commit and the last completed build from the post-commit, check comparation}